May your 2026 be in a state of perfect coherence. May you tunnel through all barriers, and may your wave function collapse into a fantastic reality. Let’s entangle our hopes for a brilliant year ahead! If truth is inexpressible and lies beyond logical thinking, then let’s choose for ourselves the mental concept that will help us in life, motivate us to do good, learn new and become better. Don’t drink too much, take care of yourselves. I wish everyone peace and happiness!
In my youth, I read Covey’s The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, and there was a line like: “Look at who surrounds you now – in five years, you’ll become like them.” The main idea was: surround yourself with businessmen, and in five years you’ll become a businessman yourself. I got really inspired by this idea and once even refused to visit a former classmate because she was a single mother – something I was terribly afraid of becoming. Anyway, I regret that now.
So why am I writing this? Later in life, I met all kinds of people—people at different financial levels, with different spiritual development, with various mental health struggles, even with suicidal thoughts. I think Covey’s principle shouldn’t be taken as dogma—that whole “success-only mindset, I only befriend people richer and more successful than me,” and so on. I think that’s a road to nowhere.
I feel closer to the Biblical ideas: “Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others,” or “Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.” Because when you give desirably you will never have to.
In 1974, 23-year-old Dan Jury made a life-altering decision to move his 81-year-old grandfather, Frank Tugend, out of a nursing home and into his own apartment to care for him full-time.
Do you want to change your life through action and cite those who have succeeded? I will disappoint you: those who, in your opinion, have managed to change their lives through action, simply had their karmic potential activated. Without understanding this, people attribute success to their own actions. But karma is a very unreliable thing: its favorable aspects are quickly exhausted, and then people are amazed: “How can this be! Before, everything worked out for me, but now everything is falling apart.” And that’s exactly right. Therefore, the only means of changing your life are mindfulness, peace and clarity of mind; and a balance of energies. Whether you like it or not, that’s the way it is.
