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Simulacrum – a pseudoreality replacing an absent reality; a combination of the real and the imagined. 

I’ve read half of the book “The Absent Father and His Impact on the Daughter” by Susan E. Schwartz. What I liked is that the absence of a father is not compensated for by a mother who works for two, but remains a black hole – unknown, yet necessary for the child as a model for finding a partner in adult life.

I also came across a term in philosophy – Simulacrum. So it seems to me that this black hole in place of a father for the child is essentially a simulacrum.

P.S. I also read that cryptocurrencies can be described as a simulacrum, with their value determined by the spectacle and by overcompensation in games – victories users achieve without any real-life accomplishments.

dear dad I made it without you
dear dad I made it without you